maybe i worded my post the wrong way but i didn't mean to look at my situation and give me advice or anything, i just meant it as a discussion in general.
personally i dont know if there is a right age per se, i think its important to wait untill after college at least, and if your not going to college, i would say at least 23 or so. so you have time to get out of the whole party/bar scene.
i also think it is best to get married before 35 because otherwise you are starting to get a bit old to have kids, especially for women.
A woman goes to the doctor to figure out why she is having breathing problems...The doctor tells her she is overweight. She says she wants a second opinion...the doctor says, "your ugly".