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Blue Supra
10-02-2005, 04:58 PM
Hey all,
I wont be around much in the next week or so as on Satuday night at the Canberra Capitals basketbal game my dad suffered a fatal heart attack.
We knew it was coming just that youre not really ever prepared for it. He was 60 in April this year.
Not really much more to say.
See you all round.
Esperante
10-02-2005, 05:02 PM
Yikes. My condolences. :(
SlickHolden
10-02-2005, 05:05 PM
OH my god mate i am so sorry to here that all my best to you and your whole family i am so sorry for your lose.
I'm sure he was a great man loved by all best wishes from me and my whole family.:(
Rockefella
10-02-2005, 05:06 PM
That's sad to hear Bluey, my heartfelt condolences. :(
DrGonzo
10-02-2005, 05:06 PM
Sorry to hear :(
Condolences to you and your family.
QuattroMan
10-02-2005, 05:19 PM
oh man sorry to hear that bro,my condolences to you and your family...
taz_rocks_miami
10-02-2005, 05:23 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that, my deepest condolences to you and your family. I know nothing I say will take the pain away, so I won't even try. Be strong mate. :(
Mate that's terrible news :(
The best of wishes to you
white devil
10-02-2005, 05:41 PM
sorry to hear that man...
Condolences to you and your family.
just like everybody said stay strong
:(
Niko_Fx
10-02-2005, 05:48 PM
My condolences Blue :(
TheOne
10-02-2005, 05:52 PM
sry to hear blue.
my condolences to you and your family.
GT F1
10-02-2005, 05:52 PM
sorry man.:(
my deepest thoughts go out to you and your family.
The_Canuck
10-02-2005, 07:02 PM
sorry to hear that, its always hard to lose loved ones
ZemoButts
10-02-2005, 07:10 PM
sorry to hear it man, at least now hes in a better place
Hey, thats not good news, hope you and your family are not too badly affected.
Life will go on, grow from it and become stronger.
car_fiend
10-02-2005, 09:26 PM
not good news at all. my condolences.
TVR IS KING
10-02-2005, 09:42 PM
sorry persondude
henk4
10-02-2005, 11:44 PM
my condolences and be strong
adrenaline
10-03-2005, 12:43 AM
"Death comes equally to us all, and makes us all equal when it comes."
-- John Donne (1572-1631), English metaphysical poet.
drakkie
10-03-2005, 12:51 AM
my condolences to you mate, as Henk said, stay strong ! there is no need to be ashamed to cry.Even the toughest guys cry.
whiteballz
10-03-2005, 02:52 AM
:( sorry to hear the news simon, im sure he will be sorely missed :(
Im sorry to hear that. :(
Sauc3
10-03-2005, 04:36 AM
My sincere condolences.
McReis
10-03-2005, 04:41 AM
There are no words strong enough to ease the pain. So I'd just want you to know I'm deeply sad for knowing that and I wish you the best way out of the suffering.
dimlight
10-03-2005, 05:42 AM
I`m sure your dad was a great man and we all feel sorry for his loss. My deepest condolences to you and everybody who cared for him.:(
SlickHolden
10-03-2005, 08:44 AM
Best advice i was given to never hold back anything cry scream kick something throw something just don't bottle it in it hurts so much worse and so much longer.
A couple of beers will do the trick, get your mates round and get your mind off it. Ive found it works when my grandad died.
SlickHolden
10-03-2005, 08:49 AM
But it's when they are gone and your alone it hurts bad it's being on your own to be able to think it's the worst thing your thoughts come and so does the pain:( You can't run away from it forever.
CdocZ
10-03-2005, 08:54 AM
Ouch, Sorry man. My condolences to you. Can't think of anything meaningful and unique to say that hasn't really been said already....so, sorry man, I hope the hard greiving is short and easy, but the sweet memory of your father stays with you.
matek
10-03-2005, 09:14 AM
shhiiit never expect these things to happen soo sorry
Mustang
10-03-2005, 09:17 AM
Sorry to hear that mate :( my thoughts are with you and the rest of your family :)
adamfraser
10-03-2005, 09:28 AM
Sorry to hear that, condolences to you and all your family. My dad died when i was 10 (now 14) and it is pretty sad. :(
Sorry to hear about your loss.
spi-ti-tout
10-03-2005, 09:32 AM
Like taz said there is probably nothing here that'll help ease the pain and I probably can't feel your sorrow as I'm not close to anyone in my immediate family in perticular, but I never saw my grandparents besides grandma from moms side and she's going to go soon too and I'm rather attached to her so yeah, I have a tingle of pain already. Just wanted you to know that there are lots of us here in the same position, if that helps at all. My thoughts are with you.
6'bore
10-03-2005, 09:44 AM
Sorry to hear that mate.
IBrake4Rainbows
10-03-2005, 04:06 PM
Oh God dude. I'm so sorry :(
just because you know it's coming doesn't mean you can ever prepare for such things.
my Condolences.....
Egg Nog
10-03-2005, 10:20 PM
I don't know quite what to say, that's a terrible thing to have happened. Best wishes to you and your family. Sorry to see this happen to your family :(
crisis
10-03-2005, 11:17 PM
Serious bummer mate. My sincere condolences.
Spastik_Roach
10-04-2005, 03:26 PM
MY absolute deepest condolences go to you, family members, and everyone who knew your dad. Kia Kaha (Be Strong). And like what Slick Said, don't bottle up your emotions. Your true mates and your family, will understand your emotion.
Blue Supra
10-04-2005, 05:35 PM
oh ive been venting but its hard. Im trying to do things for mum and especially keep it together for my little bro (14)
Im working on dads eulogy which is difficult. Heaps of people have been around dropping off food and flowers and things and the phone doesnt stop ringing. i wish theyd stop honestly. its just more annoying answering the phone every 20 mins then anything now.
Thanks for all your comments and support guys i really appreiciate it.
IBrake4Rainbows
10-04-2005, 05:40 PM
Hey Bluey.
I remember my Grandmother's funeral, she wanted something not to remember her death, but to celebrate her life.
I can understand you're getting annoyed at the Phone calls (It was every 15 for my mother, she was constantly in tears over who called up) but that just proves all those who really cared enough about your father to make an effort to say their sorry for your loss.
Hang tough buddy and stay strong. But don't be afraid to cry (dark glasses are a good idea at the funeral, they hide the pain :( )
We're Here for you dude.
2ndclasscitizen
10-04-2005, 05:52 PM
my most sincere condolences. Good to hear you're keeping strong for your family
taz_rocks_miami
10-04-2005, 06:55 PM
We're Here for you dude.
I second that, we can't be there in person but we're here if and when you need us. :)
Blue Supra
10-05-2005, 03:08 AM
cheers guys. :o
charged
10-07-2005, 07:48 PM
Hey all,
I wont be around much in the next week or so as on Satuday night at the Canberra Capitals basketbal game my dad suffered a fatal heart attack.
We knew it was coming just that youre not really ever prepared for it. He was 60 in April this year.
Not really much more to say.
See you all round.
My deepest condolences for yourself and your family Blue, very sad news, will be thinking about you mate
Matra et Alpine
10-08-2005, 02:17 AM
Sorry to read of your loss.
Obviously as with the rest of UCP my thoughts and condolences are with you and your family.
Remember all the good times, his strength will always be there for you and your family. You're only losing his physical embodiment. All the rest of him, the love, support and fun will always be in your heart and mind for you to lean on in the hard times and laugh at in the good.
Best wishes
Peter
Tourbillon
10-22-2005, 10:52 AM
Really, I never thought this would happen... My sincere condolences...:( ...
Hope you can get on with life and be stronger. Will be praying for you... And your dad.
werty
10-22-2005, 11:44 AM
sorry to hear that:( , at least you can be thankful you knew it was coming, hopefully you got a chance to say goodbye
My condolences to the family
Tourbillon
10-22-2005, 11:48 AM
NO! No matter if you actually knew something bad like this was coming, you could never be ready for it! It's really sad... well, I suggest this thread be closed in case Bluey comes in here and recalls the sad memories...:(
Guest
10-22-2005, 11:55 AM
agreed
Pando
10-23-2005, 06:57 AM
My deepest symphaties. :(
Manik
10-23-2005, 10:31 AM
Very sad to hear,
I want you to know you have all of our support.
Blue Supra
10-24-2005, 05:02 AM
lock the thread.
purely for the sake of it being old news.