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werty

12-12-2007, 09:37 PM

I was relaxing after a hard day of work playing halo3 in my room....my dad calls me up and says we have to go help his buddy right away..."it's urgent!"

So I get all excited and jump up to go help and when we are heading out the door, he says they ran over their garage door and its about to crush their car. So I was like "pff, what do i need to go for then...a broken garage door is a broken door....you cant fix em" Then my mom chimes in...hey maybe a hot babe will live there.......I laughed and said yea right...I wish!

So we get there....no hot babe. Just an older lady...but while we are "fixing the door" aka not really. This lady drives away to go pick up her daughter....When she said that I was like..."no way did my mom just predict something, lol" :p

So 20 minutes later here comes the lady and her absolutely gorgeous daughter!!!!:eek: I was cracking up inside, laughing at how weird this was turning out to be! Anyways, long story short...the girl is totally into me and we have a awesome conversation. Got her added on facebook when I got home and I've been texting her tonight. Awesome!

When I got back I told my mom the whole story...were real close. She thought it was hilarious!

Anyways, thats my story! I'm so happy right now!:D :D :D :D

sleekeywoowoo

12-12-2007, 09:47 PM

sounds like some bomb ass pussy. Good luck.

ferrarifreak013

12-12-2007, 09:55 PM

so was the door actually broken or no? or was it all set up?

werty

12-12-2007, 10:01 PM

so was the door actually broken or no? or was it all set up?

haha, no it was busted big time...prolly $1000 of damage

ferrarifreak013

12-12-2007, 10:03 PM

alright thats an awesome story then. good luck with her man!

baddabang

12-12-2007, 10:49 PM

Pics or it didn't happen.

Rockefella

12-12-2007, 11:05 PM

Pics or it didn't happen.

Troof.

Zytek_Fan

12-12-2007, 11:54 PM

Mega score for werty.

IBrake4Rainbows

12-13-2007, 12:38 AM

A PicsorBan call has been made.

You have 14 days to comply.

McReis

12-13-2007, 05:48 AM

A PicsorBan call has been made.

You have 14 days to comply.
You a broken garage door pic for what? :D

Now really, make that 7 days because, since she has facebook, there are no good enough excuses.

IBrake4Rainbows

12-13-2007, 05:50 AM

You can have whatever you want.

I want photos of the Mum.

Cotterik

12-13-2007, 07:14 AM

+2 man points!

ScionDriver

12-13-2007, 08:32 AM

If your father hadent been there this could be the plot line to a pornography, or maybe even if your dad WAS there...

"Hey I'm here to fix the garage door.." Bow chica wow wow.

NSXType-R

12-13-2007, 12:38 PM

This Thread Is Useless Without Pictures!!

:D

fisetdavid26

12-13-2007, 02:56 PM

If your father hadent been there this could be the plot line to a pornography, or maybe even if your dad WAS there...

"Hey I'm here to fix the garage door.." Bow chica wow wow.
Haha +1.

Well congrats werty. I also want pics.

werty

12-13-2007, 03:18 PM

hah, thanks guys! and no pics for now...I would never put up someones picture unless I had permission;)

wish me luck!:D

magracer

12-13-2007, 05:37 PM

hah, thanks guys! and no pics for now...I would never put up someones picture unless I had permission;)

You wouldn't be posting a pic if you sort of told us a name we could or not look at in Facebook... :D :D :D

p.s. Does anyone support my idea that Facebook has effectively killed blind dating?

werty

12-13-2007, 07:28 PM

You wouldn't be posting a pic if you sort of told us a name we could or not look at in Facebook... :D :D :D

p.s. Does anyone support my idea that Facebook has effectively killed blind dating?

haha, thats probably true

anyways, I asked her out today and we are going out Saturday...I'm freakin stoked!:D :cool:

johnnynumfiv

12-13-2007, 07:39 PM

haha, thats probably true

anyways, I asked her out today and we are going out Saturday...I'm freakin stoked!:D :cool:

Ride in the camaro = panties off. :D

Blue Supra

12-13-2007, 08:53 PM

HIH FIAVE!!!

http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d175/erotictophat/borat_nice.jpg

Cotterik

12-13-2007, 09:05 PM

^we do dirty in the anus many times on first date!

Quiggs

12-14-2007, 07:34 PM

You should definitely hit it.

Quiggs

12-14-2007, 07:35 PM

sounds like some bomb ass pussy. Good luck.

http://aldebaran.armory.com/~zenomt/bomb.jpg

http://blogs.venturacountystar.com/vcs/dennert/archives/miniature-donkey-0015.jpg

http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/2562903/2/istockphoto_2562903_pussy_cat.jpg

Gt1Street

12-15-2007, 07:58 AM

dude, you have a green straw coming out of your 3D bomb...

Kitdy

12-15-2007, 11:13 AM

http://aldebaran.armory.com/~zenomt/bomb.jpg

http://blogs.venturacountystar.com/vcs/dennert/archives/miniature-donkey-0015.jpg

http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/2562903/2/istockphoto_2562903_pussy_cat.jpg

Post of the year.

fisetdavid26

12-15-2007, 01:44 PM

Post of the year.
No wai, McReis owning drakkie is not only the post of the year, but also UCP's post of the decade.

werty

12-15-2007, 02:27 PM

you guys are like 12 years old right now:p

date went perfect last night, going again today!:D

Im loving that broken garage door right now, best thing that has ever happened to me:cool:

The_Canuck

12-15-2007, 04:04 PM

No pics = didn't happen.

Kitdy

12-15-2007, 05:18 PM

No pics = didn't happen.

Seconded.

john14

12-15-2007, 10:20 PM

I believe your story, Werty. People are only asking for proof because a few members on this forum have told us all lies so we have a hard time believing anyone's life stories.

werty

12-15-2007, 10:58 PM

I believe your story, Werty. People are only asking for proof because a few members on this forum have told us all lies so we have a hard time believing anyone's life stories.

Yea I understand that. But at the same time I could care less what they think is real or not. Im just happy I met this girl and I think my life is going to completely change. I've never met someone like her at all...I can't even put it into words right now. I'm so pumped!:)

I could have never seen this coming from a broken garage door:p I still cant believe it!:eek: :) :cool:

Gt1Street

12-15-2007, 11:03 PM

Yea I understand that. But at the same time I could care less what they think is real or not. Im just happy I met this girl and I think my life is going to completely change. I've never met someone like her at all...I can't even put it into words right now. I'm so pumped!:)

I could have never seen this coming from a broken garage door:p I still cant believe it!:eek: :) :cool:

I find it quite hard to belive that someone that took the time and posted an elaborate story on a forum, suddenly doesnt care at all what other people think about him/it.
If you couldnt "care less" then you wouldnt have posted the whole thing and then went on answering people on the thread...

magracer

12-16-2007, 06:07 PM

People are only asking for proof because a few members on this forum have told us all lies so we have a hard time believing anyone's life stories.

I don't agree. We just want to see pictures... :D :D :D

werty

12-16-2007, 06:12 PM

I don't agree. We just want to see pictures... :D :D :D

well there a 99.9% chance that will never happen

the only way it would is if she asked me to do it...but I would never do it without asking...and I wouldnt ask, she and I could care less about fulfilling your fantasies:p

just be happy for me;)

adrenaline

12-17-2007, 03:26 AM

Good one werty :D

Don't disrespect her by posting up pics without her knowledge.

IBrake4Rainbows

12-17-2007, 09:46 PM

The PicsorBan still stands.

you can't tease us like this and then be all....chivalrous. lulz.

clutch-monkey

12-17-2007, 11:08 PM

The PicsorBan still stands.

no...seriously
he means it, he will use mod power to enforce it

Zytek_Fan

12-17-2007, 11:08 PM

Good one werty :D

Don't disrespect her by posting up pics without her knowledge.

+1 :D

Spastik_Roach

12-18-2007, 03:37 AM

I'm going to disrespect your face Zytek.

McReis

12-18-2007, 08:29 AM

well there a 99.9% chance that will never happen
Damn, she must be ugly! :D
(Just kidding! Good Luck)
Are you sure she's not a man?

werty

12-18-2007, 08:54 AM

Damn, she must be ugly! :D
(Just kidding! Good Luck)
Are you sure she's not a man?

haha, NOW that would be a nightmare!:p NO I'm positive, she's is very much a girl.:D

magracer

12-18-2007, 11:56 AM

haha, NOW that would be a nightmare!:p NO I'm positive, she's is very much a girl.:D

Any photos that can prove it? Just kidding...:D :D :D

fisetdavid26

12-18-2007, 12:01 PM

She's 4'11", 210 pounds. That's why we don't get pictures. :p

Blue Supra

12-18-2007, 03:34 PM

found a pic...
http://www.nyssb.org/34SF/sf34art/HelgaVest.jpg

Rockefella

12-18-2007, 04:17 PM

found a pic...
http://www.nyssb.org/34SF/sf34art/HelgaVest.jpg

Dayum. Not bad... not bad at all.

fisetdavid26

12-18-2007, 04:21 PM

Dayum. Not bad... not bad at all.
*awaits bad joke about New Jersey girls*

Quiggs

12-18-2007, 04:44 PM

found a pic...
http://www.nyssb.org/34SF/sf34art/HelgaVest.jpg

Werty is dating Badda's mother???

jediali

12-18-2007, 04:56 PM

thread of year 2007 nomination! this is hilarious!

werty

12-23-2007, 08:33 PM

im just writing this as an update and a way to blow off some steam..

so I got the girls number and everything was going great. I asked her out for that saturday last weekend and she was all excited. Friday came and she texted me...wanted to hang out right then...so i changed plans and picked her up and out we went! I asked her what her fav restaurant was an it just happened to be my fav restaurant!

So we get there and we are having this awesome conversation...so much so that we hardly even ate the food:p It was awesome.

So I ask her if she wants to see a movie and she says yes so we leave for the theater. We saw I am Legend...which btw is the perfect movie to take a girl to:cool: After the movie we talk abunch more...everything is going SOOOO smooth...its too good to be true and I am insanely happy.

I take her home and ask her out for Saturday and we make the plans. Saturday comes, we talk for a couple hours then I pick her up again and we go for a hike in the Mountains. We chill up there and talk abunch more. You guys know how that is:)

After the hike we go back into town and get some lunch, and I take her home after that. She had some bday party to attend and I had to go home. EVERY single thing went 100% perfect.

But then something happpened...

She had to finish her finals and we couldnt see each other for a few days...no biggie, i just kept in touch with texts. But by Wednesday, her texts slow way down and on Thursday she stopped all together. I havent heard from her since:( So since then I have been totally depressed and I dont understand what happened. I talked to a buddy of mine who is a sort of girl-expert, and I tell him everything that happened. Neither of us could come up with an explanation.

My plan right now is to give her some space and see what happens in a week. But right now I feel like total crap....and I cant get her off my mind. Its really driving me nuts. I really hope she will get back to me soon...it went so well and there is no reason for this to not work...:(

baddabang

12-23-2007, 08:40 PM

Maybe she turned her phone off to study.

werty

12-23-2007, 08:52 PM

no she texted me during her studying...but when her finals were done...thats when it all stopped:(

kingofthering

12-23-2007, 08:59 PM

I'm going to disrespect your face Zytek.

Dude... are you like 12? :p:D

IBrake4Rainbows

12-24-2007, 01:45 AM

john14

12-24-2007, 02:31 AM

Werty, don't worry. Final exams are very important for both males and females so she probably turned her phone off so she can study properly. She'll probably call you after her finals are over. Relax man you are worrying too much.

Rockefella

12-24-2007, 03:38 AM

john14

12-24-2007, 03:54 AM

It's weird, you're right. Sorry I didn't have more time to talk.

Rocke, I'm having problems with this girl, PM me. :D

baddabang

12-24-2007, 07:33 AM

It's weird, you're right. Sorry I didn't have more time to talk.

Odd. I thought he spoke to quiggs?

magracer

12-24-2007, 09:09 AM

From experience, the longer you wait to clear up the situation the worse it gets (specially in your head). Call her, not casually, and ask her what's wrong, direct and the point. If it's going to be over, better to know sooner than later.

werty

12-24-2007, 09:30 AM

If she's just finished finals she might want to celebrate with those who've worked hard with her. just give her a casual call and see if she wants to hang out. if she doesn't, I'm sorry.

Don't be as desperate sounding as you are.

I'm definitely not desperate, I just don't get why she didn't get back to me. I will move on eventually if it never works, but for at least a week or 2 I'm going to be thinking about it alot.

And you may be right about her wanting to celebrate with her classmates. I thought the same thing, but its still not a very good excuse to ingore someone.

We'll see what happens

Spastik_Roach

12-24-2007, 01:20 PM

Dude... are you like 12? :p:D

Just occasionally its fun to act it!

drakkie

12-24-2007, 02:11 PM

Maybe she also is busy with family things, it is offcourse the holiday season.. ? I've had something quite similar not too long ago. I met this girl in the pub and got the accompanying phone number :) So the next day i text her, you know how it goes. During the following week I texted her a lot, like 200 times a day. On thursday I picked her up from school (otherwise she'd be waiting for the bus in the rain for 30 minutes). Upon arrival we had some intimate moments :D It was really going nicely and i definately had the butterflies in the belly.

Then over the course of two weeks we went out three times and saw eachother a couple of more times. For some reason her attitude seemed to get a bit colder over the course of it, not texting back anymore and after a while no contact at all anymore !

I'm confused and disappointed as well, even felt a little down for a few days. I guess the best thing is to let it rest and if she is still interested, i guess i'll hear from her again some day..

my porsche

12-24-2007, 06:06 PM

Then over the course of two weeks we went out three times and saw eachother a couple of more times. For some reason her attitude seemed to get a bit colder over the course of it, not texting back anymore and after a while no contact at all anymore !

She found out you kill kittens. :D

Quiggs

12-24-2007, 06:13 PM

Listen man, a wise man once said, and I quote... Bitches ain't shit but hos and tricks. That man was Snoop Dogg.

You don't need her.

Edit for the ramblings of a semi-drunk man.

my porsche

12-24-2007, 06:37 PM

I thought it was Tu Short that said that?

johnnynumfiv

12-24-2007, 06:40 PM

Listen man, a wise man once said, and I quote... Bitches ain't shit but hos and tricks. That man was Snoop Dogg.

You don't need her.

Edit for the ramblings of a semi-drunk man.

Troof.

YouTube - dr. dre - bitches aint shit (http://youtube.com/watch?v=TXibsddwAMA)

Fuerte100

12-25-2007, 08:11 AM

Girls r complicated :rolleyes: Why can't they be straightforward and simple?
Goodluck werty

werty

12-25-2007, 01:36 PM

Girls r complicated :rolleyes: Why can't they be straightforward and simple?
Goodluck werty

I couldnt have said that better myself! Thanks too!

I emailed her today...her facebook status said she "should be alot happier than this on Christmas"...she needs to wake up and smell the goodness standing right in front of her:p

IBrake4Rainbows

12-25-2007, 08:24 PM

werty

12-25-2007, 10:15 PM

Who knows - perhaps you ARE the miserable dude following her around at christmas :p

She'll talk to you when she's ready. I'm sorry I can't offer any better advice than that, but from experience it's not really worth pushing the issue - lest you push her away.

hah, no I haven been bugging her at all. I'm going to let it go now...unless she contacts me....im kinda depressed about it though

Rockefella

12-25-2007, 10:20 PM

Hit it and quit it.

IBrake4Rainbows

12-25-2007, 10:22 PM

Let Her come to you.

Who wears the pants here :p

my porsche

12-25-2007, 10:32 PM

Who wears the pants here :p

I haven't worn pants in my own home since 1994.

clutch-monkey

12-25-2007, 11:41 PM

Let Her come to you.

Who wears the pants here :p

i've faked a learning disability since i was 8. it's considered a good day if i'm wearing clothes, let alone pants

IBrake4Rainbows

12-26-2007, 03:50 AM

Faked a Learning disability?

Being short is not a disability. not that it's something you can fake.

EDIT:

http://www.thefinkfile.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/CartmanRetarded-Resized.jpg

McReis

12-27-2007, 05:55 AM

I think you are not letting her breathe. Don't send e-mail or SMS. Just wait for some days.
Take it from me: girls don't like guys who seem to easy to catch. ;)

drakkie

01-04-2008, 11:18 AM

Just wondering how it all ended there. Did you get things back on track with her again ?

The girl I described in my post above did anyways. I have got a date planned for tonight, cannot wait. She contacted me newyearsday and from one thing came the other again. We'll see how it ends up.

Clivey

01-04-2008, 11:44 AM

drakkie

01-04-2008, 12:16 PM

Inside his tunnel on the back seat of the Alto? Your secret's safe with us.;):rolleyes:

Do you have some kind of problem with me lately ? What did I do to deserve all your childish and insulting remarks ? I'd love to see some sort of explanation, or are you too scared for that ?

jediali

01-04-2008, 12:40 PM

Isnt that a scene from zoolander :D...TBH clivey, that one was a bit out of the blue.

Clivey

01-04-2008, 03:32 PM

Do you have some kind of problem with me lately ? What did I do to deserve all your childish and insulting remarks ? I'd love to see some sort of explanation, or are you too scared for that ?

OK. Normally I can put-up with 15-year old kids that don't have anything better to do with their time boasting with tall stories, but it seems that you go out of your way to lie and to offer downright disgusting advice to people. The remarks about the illegal (for a reason) and inhumane killing of animals, along with other questionable behaviour coupled with blatant will to mislead and fib to other members are starting to grate on the nerves of a large amount of us.

Not only this but you constantly pretend to be someone you're not. You may well remember me congratulating you not so long ago for great posts including highly intelligent material, so it's all the more annoying to see the "120mph" and "Test-drove an R8" stories. You seem to have an untruth for every situation.

As for my reaction: The aim is purely to make you realise that you're being an idiot, so that you stop, think and change for the better - I was actually thinking about asking you for more (serious) details of this Escort project you're undertaking, but I couldn't be bothered with all the crap you'd likely be spouting, such as when you mentioned turbocharging your Alto.

I do credit people where credit's due - I voted for you on (I think) the last general photo comp, but I also don't tolerate idiots too kindly, hence this. It's a bit like the old story "The Boy Who Cried Wolf" - people just can't tell the difference between truth and lies coming from you anymore. Think about it.

TBH clivey, that one was a bit out of the blue.

Yeah, as mentioned it's frustration taking it's toll. A healthy does of tongue-in-cheek humour sorts most things out on the Internet.

werty

01-04-2008, 04:14 PM

Just wondering how it all ended there. Did you get things back on track with her again ?

We'll I took my buddy's advice and decided to wait a few days. I found her online on new years at like 12:15am. We talked finally for a little bit, she said she got a job and had been really busy. I asked her if she had any free time coming up and she said she would try and make some time for me...or something like that.

I was thinking of calling her this afternoon, but I've lost some of my confidence. I dont want to find out that if I had waited one more day everything would have been fine...but I also dont want to wait too long and have her find someone else.

I've never been in this type of situation before. When I meet someone I'm used to contacting them o a regular basis and hanging out alot. So this is completely confusing to me right now.

ripper46

01-04-2008, 05:23 PM

hookers+cars+a nice pet= 1 complete life

all that women stuff ends in tears eventually, I TRY not to bother anymore
I love my car and my cat

edit: he's not dead, he really did lie there like that for nearly an hour

Fuerte100

01-04-2008, 06:24 PM

VtecMini

01-04-2008, 06:27 PM

It's cliched to hell, but it's better to regret something you've done than something you haven't.

In this case, you've got nothing to lose by going for it. If she's interested, she'll want to know that you are too. If she isn't? Nothing lost.

-What-

01-04-2008, 08:52 PM

But then something happpened...

She had to finish her finals and we couldnt see each other for a few days...no biggie, i just kept in touch with texts. But by Wednesday, her texts slow way down and on Thursday she stopped all together. I havent heard from her since:( So since then I have been totally depressed and I dont understand what happened. I talked to a buddy of mine who is a sort of girl-expert, and I tell him everything that happened. Neither of us could come up with an explanation.

My plan right now is to give her some space and see what happens in a week. But right now I feel like total crap....and I cant get her off my mind. Its really driving me nuts. I really hope she will get back to me soon...it went so well and there is no reason for this to not work...:(
Now dig this...
Hate me and whatever else, but "What" knows about bitches. Expert? Who? Me? Yes...not your friend apparently...maybe.

How old are you and the girl? I'm gonna make some assumptions so excuse me if my assumptions are wrong.

My first tip is don't listen to this guy.

Call her, not casually, and ask her what's wrong, direct and the point. If it's going to be over, better to know sooner than later.
If you don't want her to date you anymore, follow magracer's advice. Firstly, she doesn't know you and you don't know her, so you two have no "it" that can be over. IS IT OVER BETWEEN US? The bitch will say..."What? What are you talking about? We were just friends...not boyfriend/girlfriend..."

I understand that your feelings were hurt and all, but this isn't a serious situation at all...and this especially wasn't a serious relationship because there wasn't a "relationship". Two dates dude, that's it...by my count. Therefore don't approach the lady with such a serious tone...this situation is something she doesn't have to clarify for you and for your sake I'm glad she didn't...because now you have experienced what most women will give you after only two weeks of knowing her.

So none of this "direct and to the point" shit. You'll turn her off. Why? Because you're violating what I call her "caveman rulebook"...aka, caveman status. Instinctual type shit. I believe when women first meet you they judge you more heavily on how "manly" you are rather what qualities you have that best benefit them in this modern day world. Getting all soft and insecure with a "what went wrong" question totally throws you in the bitch pile. You wouldn't hack it in caveman world and therefore she won't be interested in you anymore. This is my opinion. Don't listen to magracer.

What's all this depressed shit? There are like, millions of females available to you. This is one chick. This isn't your fault...or is it?

...it went so well and there is no reason for this to not work...:(
There are plenty reasons why it didn't work. I'm going to assume some things here.

The way you look wasn't the problem...initially at least. If you got a date then that shows that you passed her visual test. Now if you f*cked up later on in other areas she might start picking you apart and notice that your nose is a little big, you're a little short...too pale...eww...

My strongly researched and supported hypothesis as to what went wrong in your situation is that you didn't show clear signals that you were interested in her romantically...another "caveman" law broken. Were you a gentleman to her? Too gentleman like? I'd assume you were. I believe being a super gentleman to a young girl doesn't mix...because ya see...the younger the girl the dumber and less experienced the girl...and therefore she will judge you on more caveman qualities than a grown and mature woman.

So what did you do on the hike...alone. Talk? Ha, you lose. Less talk more touch. Try this and I bet you'd rarely lose contact. I'm not suggesting you rape bitches in the woods....no means no...but I will assume, judging by your perceived "attitude", that you could afford to be more aggressive and assertive...aka more interesting. She can talk to her friends...her hormones wanna kiss and caress YOU.

Of course it is completely possible that you did everything right and this is just one crazy ass bitch who hates a good man...but if you did everything right you wouldn't be crying.

We talked finally for a little bit, she said she got a job and had been really busy. I asked her if she had any free time coming up and she said she would try and make some time for me...or something like that.

I was thinking of calling her this afternoon, but I've lost some of my confidence. I dont want to find out that if I had waited one more day everything would have been fine...but I also dont want to wait too long and have her find someone else.

You shouldn't have asked her if she "had any free time coming up"...dude, you're bracing for failure. Chicks recognize this. You gotta go all-in if you expect something to happen. Have some balls..."There's this car-show at 5:00 on Friday I was gonna go check out...you should come.." Your sentences should be something like that. With new chicks it is most important to try to be specific as f*ck. Beating around the bush causes communication barriers. And...chicks dig decision makers. But please note, by the third date, your date invites should sound a little more "naughty"...more like...."There's this car-show at 5:00 on Friday I was gonna go check out...you should come...or better yet theres a party that night that you should come to instead...it's darker so it'll be easier for you to take advantage of me." You should be saying that...but you probably f*cked this up already....but it's cool, it's cool....

Now, what you want to know...
Sorry, but the chances are that she is not interested in you anymore.
NO chick is too busy to contact someone she is interested in. NONE. NOT A SINGLE GIRL ON EARTH...unless she's kidnapped, bound and gagged. Your "expert" friend may have known this but didn't want to break your heart...or not. That job shit is so old. Where is she working? McDonalds? Barnes and Noble? Unless she's starting a career managing Oprah's schedule and running for President, this excuse is so lame and flawed. Too busy? Because the bitch got a job? Please...that's how I know this bitch is young.

If you had a level head, you'd have seen through her "lies". But you're lust struck. Well, let this be a lesson that there are beautiful women out there willing to give you a chance. That should be a confidence boost to you. I would suggest you behave differently next time. And I suggest you not harm your pride and/or reputation by making emotionally involved attemtps to "get her back". And if you do make attempts to date her again, do it later on...like...way later. And do it with less emotional "end-of-the-world-if-she-says-no" attachment. So what if she finds a new man during the "wait"...if she's not calling you, she was going to find one anyway, with or without your harassment.

If you have any future questions or confusion from my post I have no problem lending you my opinions. I am not harsh or mean so don't take this post as a harsh or mean...post.

werty

01-04-2008, 09:07 PM

you pretty much said exactly what my bud was telling me

and I appreciate it, and I acknowledge it

but in my defense, I didnt over-dramatize it to her in any way

if I didnt get a reply back I didnt go out and say..."why dont you like me anymore", haha, im not a teenager

I pretty much agree with everything you said, I know its all truth...your strategy that is

and yes she is younger...by 3 years

My best guess is I dont have another shot for now...maybe in a few weeks or months something might start up again

Or maybe she is crazy, I have no clue:p:confused:

-What-

01-04-2008, 09:49 PM

but in my defense, I didnt over-dramatize it to her in any way...and yes she is younger...by 3 years

I didn't think that you over-dramatized it to her. I was speaking in "what-ifs".

How old are you?

my porsche

01-04-2008, 11:30 PM

haha, im not a teenager
...I thought you were like 17-19ish?

WHAT, you used to be the most annoying e-thug in existence, but I guess you rediscovered yourself or something. Your posts are helpful, coherent, make sense, and most of all not just insults. I don't know "what" to think. :p Good job, some very good and helpful advice in what you posted.

fisetdavid26

01-04-2008, 11:33 PM

WHAT, you used to be the most annoying e-thug in existence, but I guess you rediscovered yourself or something. Your posts are helpful, coherent, make sense, and most of all not just insults. I don't know "what" to think. :p Good job, some very good and helpful advice in what you posted.
I have to admit what -What- just said is pretty cool. But then I read his chop request thread...

my porsche

01-04-2008, 11:44 PM

I have to admit what -What- just said is pretty cool. But then I read his chop request thread...

Yeaaahhhh I just read that too. Classic -What-.

Clivey

01-05-2008, 02:14 AM

I have to admit what -What- just said is pretty cool. But then I read his chop request thread...

Maybe I've missed something, but I have to say that out of the posts I've read by "-What-" (which haven't been many), I've never seen a problem. Where is this thread?

Sophie

01-06-2008, 02:57 PM

My best guess is I dont have another shot for now...maybe in a few weeks or months something might start up again

Or maybe she is crazy, I have no clue:p:confused:

I'm not normally one to give 'advice' on matters like this, and you're probably not asking for this advice anyways, but, here is my opinion.

I think that the whole thing happened too fast, maybe because of the situation the whole "I've come to fix your garage door" thing, and you were like "wow" when you saw her. I think that you maybe took things a bit too fast and got a bit of 'caught up in the moment' syndrome.

However, in my opinion, (and I may be making an assumption and maybe I'm wrong) but I think that this girl is wondering if she is up for this, as you've said she's been busy and maybe other stuff comes before a relationship in her eyes, I know from experience that sometimes you've got to back off, and give each other some space, maybe she needs time to realise what she might miss out on.

This girl might not be the type to notice her Knight in Shining Armor when he appears in front of her, and I don't think she is crazy, but maybe she is living in the whole 'fairy tale' romance frame of mind, and not up for a whirl-wind romance.

Dont lose your confidence because that makes you who you are. You never know, maybe she is waiting for you to phone her to talk about things, although, she may be waiting to see how you react to not hearing from her, There is nothing a girl likes more than a man who understands her. She may be glad that you have given her the space she needs and that you are not being 'pushy' like most of the other guys out there.

I'm not going to make any suggestions because this is your call, and at the end of the day, it doesn't affect my life, but yours.

You can either sit back and wait and miss out on an opportunity that may never come again, or you can talk to her, like a friend and get to know her as a friend before anything else, because in a relationship, being friends is all that counts and I know that to all you guys this seems really mushy and lovey dovey but it's true, There is no point in being with someone, if you can't talk to them like a friend.

I am sorry if I have rambled on or not made any sense at all and maybe contradicted myself, but sometimes when you find the right person you can't plan what will happen or what to say. You have to go with it and persevere.

So there are my thoughts, and I'm sorry if you don't agree with this.

Good luck with this girl.

Sophie x

Waugh-terfall

01-06-2008, 03:12 PM

Sophie the love guru lol ...Clive?

Clivey

01-06-2008, 03:19 PM

Sophie the love guru lol ...Clive?

No comment, matey! :p

Sophie

01-07-2008, 12:01 AM

No comment, matey! :p

well, come on Clive, tell them all the truth!!

On Second thoughts... don't !! :p

drakkie

01-07-2008, 02:42 AM

A man can understand everything on this world, there is one thing that he can never. Girls.

I've written Matlab programmes 10 pages long. I've made extensive 3D-CAD models of a complete vehicle. Easy, compared to girls.

The girl I was talking about earlier seems to be going relatively slow now. Don't think it is going to end up in more than a friendship anymore. Bummer.

jediali

01-07-2008, 04:05 AM

I've written Matlab programmes 10 pages long.
i feel for you :D, but take note that length is no measure of function, a difficult code may be very short due to complex loops, conditions, etc. Actually sometimes my lazier code is longer because i cant be bothered using more matlab functions which would shorten the code.

I've made extensive 3D-CAD models of a complete vehicle. Easy, compared to girls.
Still time consuming though, and is subject to breaking down. Is this the spaceframe we saw or something different? I had a go at modelling a monocoque chassis, i wouldnt mind a wee look, i at least would appreciate a thread with some pics.

drakkie

01-07-2008, 05:06 AM

Still time consuming though, and is subject to breaking down. Is this the spaceframe we saw or something different? I had a go at modelling a monocoque chassis, i wouldnt mind a wee look, i at least would appreciate a thread with some pics.

I'd love to post them or send them but due to commercial interests and a "secrecy clause" I signed on it, I cannot send them. The finished product will be worth the waiting though. *looks over his left shoulder at concept vehicle* :cool:

edit:

The biggest work is in joining all the individual components together. It rarely happens evertyhting fits together exactly, even though you've ha exhaustive meetings time and time again to make sure of this.. The work isn't in the components itself (we usually modify allready drawn parts anyway to meet the very tight deadlines), but in the assembly. The software we have to use isn't really pleasant for that either.. :o Ah well, that's life. Atleast now it doesnt matter too much if i **** up.

fisetdavid26

01-07-2008, 12:05 PM

Maybe I've missed something, but I have to say that out of the posts I've read by "-What-" (which haven't been many), I've never seen a problem. Where is this thread?
This one. (http://www.ultimatecarpage.com/forum/chop-forums/35170-emblem-switch-chop-please-god.html)

Clivey

01-07-2008, 03:30 PM

This one. (http://www.ultimatecarpage.com/forum/chop-forums/35170-emblem-switch-chop-please-god.html)

Ah. I can understand why now - I can't understand him, though! :p

Spastik_Roach

01-07-2008, 03:31 PM

I've written Matlab programmes 10 pages long. I've made extensive 3D-CAD models of a complete vehicle. Easy, compared to girls.

http://img220.imageshack.us/img220/3307/drakkieof0.jpg

I'm sorry Drakkie I really am but :D

Clivey

01-07-2008, 03:33 PM

http://img220.imageshack.us/img220/3307/drakkieof0.jpg

Time for a custom avatar, boy! :D

Spastik_Roach

01-07-2008, 03:47 PM

Argh I'm not a supporting member though, being broke=fail

Clivey

01-07-2008, 04:09 PM

Argh I'm not a supporting member though, being broke=fail

You don't need to be a SM to take part! (Waugh-terfall and Mr.Tiv have shiny avatars honouring Drakkie). The point of the whole SM thing isn't just ownage! ;)

Spastik_Roach

01-07-2008, 04:11 PM

Sweeet! Sign me up!

Quiggs

01-07-2008, 04:36 PM

Is there anything drakkie hasn't done?

Spastik_Roach

01-07-2008, 05:23 PM

he was never a baby. he was born 17. skipped that stage entirely. medical scientists are baffled.

Quiggs

01-07-2008, 05:27 PM

He beat Buzz Lightyear to the moon landing.

baddabang

01-07-2008, 05:33 PM

I heard hes the son of Chuck Norris and Bill Murray.

Clivey

01-07-2008, 05:34 PM

He beat Buzz Lightyear to the moon landing.

You got the labels the wrong way 'round; stoopid! :D

Quiggs

01-07-2008, 05:36 PM

He singlehandedly designed the ZR1, GTR, and 997 GT3RS.

baddabang

01-07-2008, 05:37 PM

He singlehandedly designed the ZR1, GTR, and 997 GT3RS.

Forgot the one eight tee.

Blue Supra

01-07-2008, 06:41 PM

I heard he fought The Rock, Wesley Snipes and Mike Tyson at the same time and won.

Quiggs

01-07-2008, 06:50 PM

Drakkie ended the Cold War.

johnnynumfiv

01-07-2008, 07:08 PM

Drakkie ended the Cold War.

Tis' the truth.

EVIDENCE
http://www.ultimatecarpage.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=262435&stc=1&d=1199758067

johnnynumfiv

01-07-2008, 07:28 PM

I'm bored.
http://www.ultimatecarpage.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=262436&stc=1&d=1199759267
http://www.ultimatecarpage.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=262437&stc=1&d=1199759267
http://www.ultimatecarpage.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=262438&stc=1&d=1199759739

baddabang

01-07-2008, 07:45 PM

Epic Win.

-What-

01-10-2008, 02:25 AM

I have to admit what -What- just said is pretty cool. But then I read his chop request thread...

Why do you have to paint me as this big ball of negativity. Why.

I don't hold grudges. Ever.

I will help anyone of you. Anytime. If I am available.

We may not get along, but remember that I am there to help you. I'm not that bad. I can provide a wealth of information to any of you. A wealth of references for any of you.

I do not take the responses of the members in my "chop request" thread personally because I understand that you all have not yet matured. I'd help me...but that's how I roll.

Sophie's advice was horrible, no one listen to it if you actually want to get the girl.

kingofthering

01-10-2008, 08:22 AM

I heard he fought The Rock, Wesley Snipes and Mike Tyson at the same time and won.

300 was Drakkie's autobiography; they changed the number to 300 because Warner Brothers didn't think anyone would believe that one person could bring that much ownage at once. :D

werty

07-30-2008, 10:39 PM

we'll its been 8 months almost now...still no word:p

nah im just kidding, we are just friends now

but I wanted to update this, it appears she just got a modeling contract in cali, where she moved 3 weeks ago

so Im sure we'll be seeing her face soon, if she makes it big Ill post pics, but for now I will hold off...

Rockefella

07-30-2008, 11:41 PM