Advice?

[Sauc3]

Go out and apply for jobs, the more you do the more confident you'll get. I used to absolutely shit myself when asking for one, now I don't have single problem with it. As everyone's said, just find whatever bit you can gain extra confidence with. For me it was job searches.

[Suka]

You're doing it wrong then

Sound advice there Sam.

[Rebirth of Xar]

Hey guys. It seems I have a little problem. I was wondering if anyone could help at all.
I have always been rather shy...at least for the last few years...and for that time I have been prone to blushing easily. When everyone looks at me and stuff...
But recently its gotten quite out of hand. The last two days in fact...
Ive been blushing like twice an hour. Its annoying and embarrassing...And un-called for.
Anyone know why? How I could overcome it?
A psychiatrist maybe?
I just dont wanna go to school anymore.

you gotta get taken out by your bestest friend and put into the worse possible situation, then when you blush like a pansy and freak out everyone can point and laugh. then youll atleast be entertaining as opposed to the boring/weird blushy kid.

[Rebirth of Xar]

look im j/k
you need to have a friend surpise you with a prostitute then whne you start blushing the ho can boost up your confidence and youll be more secure and confident in yourself.

[LotusLocost]

^^Are you drunk??^^

[TVR IS KING]

Heh great advice guys...Some of it not so great. Funny though.
Yeah you cant just grow confidence, and I could act it pretty well...except for the blushing.
You sound like a psychologist LotusLocust :P
Lol I think I love you Xar.
As it were, I went to see the psychologist after having a hell of a morning and not wanting to put up with Systems.
Well it was pretty amazing. He basically told me that I cant change what other people think, so who cares if theyre judging me?
Mainly though, he said that the best thing I could do was to put up with it. He asked if I had good friends, I said yes, he said that if I blush I should tell them, instead of trying to hide it half-assedly. If they understand, it wouldnt be too bad.
I dont think he knew the wisdom of his words...
I followed his advice, and soon worked out that I was more afraid of blushing. Someone would laugh at my funny joke , and I would be scared of blushing...and thus, would blush.
What he told me was to stop letting it worry me... so I stopped caring, told Dylan when he asked where Id been (he sees Mike as well), and it all worked out great.
Dylan didnt care, he understood...and now that I know it doesnt matter if I blush, Im not afraid of it and it doesnt happen nearly as much.
Got scary there for a little while.

Xar...guy?
I kinda took your advice before I read it.

Theres this girl at school whos madly in love with me...and..well were both on a late bus that comes an hour after the final bell.
I organised to make out with her at school last week, and today we went further...and Ive never felt more confident.
For once, she was more embarrassed by the playful teasing than I was. Didnt even blush

And thats my story.
PS. Love the av Piacki.

[IWantAnAudiRS6]

get drunk, and then run through the city naked except for a set of ski goggles. i gaurantee you you'll neve rbe shy again.

Best advice ever. I trust you have done it?

[Rockefella]

Step 1: Buy prosthetic penis, preferably over 8-9" long.*
Step 2: Stick outside of underpants, under loose-fitting mesh gym-shorts.
Step 3: Walk through hallway with your head held high, and give the ladies a smile.
Step 4: Go on UCP and tell us how it goes.

*Footnote: Prosthetic penis not required if said person is well-endowed.

[brandisher]

Try not to think about whatever your shy about and just do it. I use to be shy to talk to hot women and end up having to hang out near the really ugly ones until I gain some guts and walked over and began talking to the nice looking ones.

[Vaigra]

get drunk, and then run through the city naked except for a set of ski goggles. i gaurantee you you'll neve rbe shy again.

Talking from experience can really help eh Sam?

[TVR IS KING]

^^^ Thats exactly what I did.
And I had a worryless day.
I am forever in your debt clutch monkey.

[clutch-monkey]

Best advice ever. I trust you have done it?

yes. i have little doubt that the footage will turn up at my upcoming 21st.
TVR it works because nothing you consciously do can compare to that...