The fact that people
do pick and choose what bits of religion they follow doesn't alter the fact that they are being self-interested and insincere.
People kill each other, even though, by conventionally accepted thinking, they aren't supposed to.
To me, it is like football (soccer) - there are certain parameters that describe the game - kicking a ball with your feet for instance - and if you follow those parameters you are playing football.
If you decide that picking the ball up is more convenient to you, you are no longer playing football, you've got rugby, or basketball, or something else.
Sorry for having an opinion!
It is funny how being atheist is seen as "disrespectful" to religious beliefs, yet being religious is not seen as "disrespectful" to atheist beliefs.
Maybe you can ask Jesus to pop round and explain things with a bit more clarity too me and point out how I am wrong.
I'll put the kettle on.