Wife and I are very unhappy living where we are. I don't mind the South; she does. But we both agree we want to go to a larger city. We feel starved for good food, family events, and constructive timewasters. She has family in none other than Rochester, NY. I was very reluctant until I visited last year, and it's actually a surprisingly nice place, even if it is a bit smaller of a city than I would have chosen for myself.
This will be interesting...