Very much agreed. "If you are lonely when you are alone, then you are in bad company". Make yourself all you need to be content with your surroundings - not to the point where everything else in the world starts to bother you or that you find yourself too picky about other people, but enough that if you need to be alone, you can be.
This is not to say you MUST spend all your time alone - keeping busy can mean going out for a drink with friends, too.
However, I will also say that moving/going and doing something different, is definitely the best thing to do for the moment.
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Thanks guys. It's been a help to hear your perspectives and support. It's slowly getting better already. I'm still having some trouble sleeping and eating, but my waking hours are starting to get a little more bearable. Time, I hope, will heal.
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Good to hear.
Sorry about Fiset and I's tangent.
I know your prbably in a depressed laze and dont want to do much, but I reccommend some hardcore intense playing of instuments(if you do) or excercise. They'll elp you build up your appetite and help you sleep.
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But Food really, really helps. If you get invited out for a meal, and especially if they are paying, take the opportunity. It'll be a good chance to not only talk, but you'll get a free meal out of it
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I've actually been pretty active, but the appetite isn't there. I get nauseous around food usually, but I managed to pack an entire plate of pasta away tonight when I went to dinner with my Ma and the conversation distracted me.
Sleepwise...well, let's put it this way. I'm no fan of medicating, but I took a sleeping pill last night and still got only 4 hours of sleep.
If I had a bicycle, I'd take your exercise advice, it was one of my first thoughts. The first girl I dated and lost, I got over in a half hour mad frenzy of pedal pushing. We're talking Giro d'Italia and Tour de France effort here. I could barely stand afterwards and my legs hurt for several days after, but the pent up tension was gone like magic. We don't have any bicycles anymore though
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It's good to know we've helped you in some ways. And about the sleeping and eating part, I fully understand how you feel. I've only began to eat normally less than two weeks ago, that's about a month and a half into the break up. My sleeping is still irregular but its better than the 1 hour or so of sleep I was getting at the beginning of everything. And you are right, time will heal. You will still think about her and everything that's happened, especially around special days between you two. But you'll find that eventually you'll find yourself caring less and less as you go on. At least that was my experience. Go on with life, you'll thank yourself later on.
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you made me laugh, and that's a good sign.
I would say that you are going to discover hidden forces in those moments. me, without any kind of training, was running every day for 50 minutes as fats as I can, slightly uphill. after a couple of days or so, I re-started eating, it was just a physical thing in that way. consuming massive energy, beginning to refuel the body. still kinda unpleasant.
time...expect it to be very much. but, yeah, you will thank yourself later.
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*sigh* now I gotta send the certified letter to show that I attempted to adviser her of what I'm going to do with her stuff she still has here...and hope she doesn't sick the cops on me for it. She is mad as hell for some reason.
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