Big cities suck
"Not putting miles on your Ferrari is like not having sex with your girlfriend so she'll be more desirable to her next boyfriend." -Napolis
Men by nature are programmed to find certain features of a woman "attractive" for breeding purposes. Big hips, fair sized breasts, and certain other areas are the focal points because they are directly related to child birth. It all comes back down to survival of the fittest. Now, I can't really go in depth on this stuff because I don't study it, but I know that it is the way it is for a reason. Therefore, I would not go so far as to call a man shallow, because his instincts are merely at work, hinting at him to appreciate certain assets of a woman more than others.
A woman can appreciate a good looking man as well, but her main focus is on how good of a provider the potential partner is. This is why we see a lot of beautiful women with men that have not much else to show for themselves other than bags and bags of money. We all have our opinions on those ladies as well, but hey, its the same story with the ladies' natural attractors too. Bodies are not the girl's main worry, because they want a man that is honest and can take good care of her.
A little bit of knowledge on this topic is all it takes to lead an open minded understanding of why things are the way they are with us humans. We're not always as complicated as it seems.
i know that not all men are shallow... its just that, i never had that male role model in my life and neither has my sister. my mom has given me that idea that men are pigs and so on and so forth ( she's just met the wrong kind of guys thats all! ) and i find that she seems to think that about men, no matter what for some reason. but i think that she's changed that kind of thinking though. i am a bit intimidated that when i plan to marry a man, i hope that he doesn't have a history of woman beating or the like.
Buddy: 1998-2009
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Big cities suck
"Not putting miles on your Ferrari is like not having sex with your girlfriend so she'll be more desirable to her next boyfriend." -Napolis
well, you're in the right place. There's lots of kind fellows that will take care of you here and teach you a thing or two about the world. We've got brains from all ages and all walks of life. This is Ultimatecarpage at its finest . We're an incredible group of people.
thanks guys for those posts.
Buddy: 1998-2009
Mah boi, UCP is what all true warriors strive for!
PINGAS!!!!
Despite the relative (ok, OVERT) chauvanism of the internet, there are still pockets of decency about.
Basically you don't want a guy who wants you for your looks because even if you are pretty, that fades and you'll have nothing.
Focus on yourself and making yourself happy. It's the only person you have control over.
Here endeth the lesson on self esteem. <GONG>
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